Dating best friend break up
To be fair, many times, people will say this because it’s expected; a social nicety that’s supposed to ease the sting of a break-up that usually feels more like a sharp kick to your soul’s nuts.
But what if you legitimately to be friends afterwards? Just because you didn’t work out as lovers, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be friends – even Let’s start this off with some straight talk: you’re not going to be friends for a while.
Trying to force a friendship too early means you’re going to fall right back into old patterns with your ex and that spells trouble.
Most of the time, when you’ve broken up, it’s for a very good reason.
Staying around one another – even when you both swear that you’re over it – almost always means that all you’re doing is prolonging the breaking-up portion of your relationship, which is an excellent way to ensure that you be friends afterwards.
You need to have time apart, without being in contact with each other, in order to move into this new phase of your life.
Some don’t care about witnessing ex’s displays of affection with their new snugglebunny and for others, it’s pure unadulterated nightmare fuel.
This goes both ways, by the way; just because you’re totally fine with knowing everything (and everyone) your ex gets up to doesn’t mean that they’re going to feel the same way about you.
With a blog nominated in both 2012 and now 2014 for the Cosmo Blog Awards, she is one to watch out for as she will say all the things you are thinking!It’s tempting to assume that, seeing as you’ve been swapping bodily fluids before, that there’s no reason you can’t be as open with one another as you were before you broke up. Just because you were super close before doesn’t mean that you can maintain that same level of total disclosure that you had now that you’re no longer together.Remember how I said you’re going to be a different person once you’ve broken up?You always know how to make the other one smile in tough times. Though you will be sad and maybe pretty pissed off, keep grounded and respectful.There may be a lot of bitchy comments you can make but instead, wish the person well and do your thing.