If you want to have more than one mattress mate, go for it.
"Then, oddly, he started calling more and asking me out more often — as if he were trying to say, 'Pick me! '" But beware: Not every guy will take the news so well.
"Anytime you date without a commitment, you risk being wounded," warns Vogels.
What to do if you find yourself suddenly realizing that you aren't the only chica on a guy's calendar? You can't change the situation (unless you want to give up your own roaming privileges), so make the best of it.
But being so politely planned out — limiting yourself to one guy per weekend or even per day — could cause you to lose momentum.
So go ahead and pack your PDA with appointments as tightly as you can swing it.
"If you lose a few while they're in the air, well, that's part of the game." Juggling Rule 3: Curb Your Jealousy If you haven't already thought of it, let us remind you: The nonexclusivity clause works both ways.