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There are compromises required from both sides in every relationship.
ASK THE EXPERT: QI have been married 10 years and we have four children aged 9, 7, 6 and 4.
Up until this, I thought things were okay in our marriage, though of course we haven’t had much couple time with the demands of four children but this discovery has come as a bolt out of the blue.
This is the vulnerable stuff, and it may take some bravery to open up.
If you're both willing to deepen your connection, your relationship will only continue to bloom. How might you support one another in going after them?
Someday he's working from 2 pm - 11 pm, and someday he has night shifts too (he's in IT! Now, we chat with each other for hardly 10-20 messages a day, most of them are about 'how are you? We still Face Time on weekends and we meet twice in a year (which isn't something to be proud of, but that's all I have right now! If I am really really missing him on some days, I tell him to call me and I tell him to be free in the evening, and he DOES take out time for me!
But demanding that everyday would be stupid - on my part and to deliver it would be impossible on his part as he's a working man, and I have to understand his limitations!
Let me give you my example - I am in a long distance relationship since 5 years now, and initially when we newly came into a relationship with each other, I used to talk to him a lot (A LOT! And a lot here, means around 5-8 hours a day of chatting, calling, skype etc!